Once I started brushing up on food and wine, as well as learning about stylish clothing, things started to change for me. Nowadays, my best trick is cooking a delicious, homemade meal for a date. Usually I will have a red or white wine list with dinner, allowing her to pick what bottle we open. Then we will have chicken Alfredo, seafood pasta, or some other similar dish. I do my best to make everything perfect. Even if it doesn't come out just right, girls noticed the effort. It impresses them, and makes them want to make more of an effort to get to know you.
Good food is also a great way to start a conversation.